Sunday, February 5, 2012

One Month

Our little guy is 1 month old!!!!
In addition to getting a sneak peek at his photo shoot with Ms. Kate, I'll tell you a little bit about what Mr. Grant has been up to. Let me start by saying that Grant is following in his brothers' footsteps by advancing at lightening speed. The kid could hold his head up at birth which was shocking to hospital staff and family alike, but at 1 month he has really made great strides at holding his head steady while looking around. He's not quite the bobble head that we experienced in the first few weeks.

Grant's eye sight and his ability to focus has also greatly improved. He's tracking well and can follow you with his eyes as you're walking around the room. His hearing is quite acute, and Grant seems to be learning his name. When you call him, he will look at you with his big beautiful eyes. As impressive as all of those things are, Grant's biggest feat to date is rolling from his stomach to his back. He actually mastered the move for the first time when he was a mere 2 weeks old, but he did it while throwing a fit and obviously an adrenaline rush contributed to his success. Now at a month old, Grant can easily roll over. However, he doesn't choose to do it as often because he's too busy trying to scoot around on his belly. SERIOUSLY! At this rate, I'll be sharing that he's crawling when I post the 2 month update!

Saturday, February 4, 2012

Meet & Greet

The introductions have continued into February for little Grant with the arrival of Aunt Emily. As an added bonus, BaBa made a return visit so she could see her three favorite grandsons. She jokingly claimed she didn't care about seeing Emily. Although, we all know that isn't really true...or is it?!BaBa continued her mission to spoil Grant rotten by once again refusing to put him down for 4 straight days. Needless to say, the poor kid wasn't terribly happy when BaBa left and he discovered that treatment can't be the "norm" when he's one of three children. He's learning early that you have to wait your turn. Luckily, he's relatively patient. Note that I said "relatively."
Jaxon and Baylor were delighted that Aunt Emily arrived with gifts. She really does know the way to their hearts! While BaBa was holding/spoiling Grant, Aunt Emily was blasting rockets into outer space (and into trees) and playing a version of the game Bocce ball with boys. She was also reading books, sword fighting, and tackling pretty much any activity or idea that the boys threw out. So, yes, the boys were happy to see Aunt Emily!
While we've been enjoying unseasonably warm weather this winter, Aunt Emily must have brought the chilly NYC temps down South. We didn't let that alter our plans though and spent Saturday enjoying the sunshine on the beach.
Aunt Emily and her friend, Dave, spent the better part of the afternoon building a massive sand castle with the boys. It was sad to see their efforts washed away in a matter of minutes once the tide started to come in. I guess that's life!
As is always the case, the weekend went by way too quickly. We went from welcoming family to bidding them farewell in the blink of an eye. It's okay though. We know they'll be back!

Saturday, January 28, 2012

Derby Day

If you've ever been around Jaxon for longer than 5 minutes, then you know the boy is obsessed with cars. He was born this way. I can remember Jaxon pointing out my car in a crowded parking lot at 12 months old, and by the time he was 18 months, Jaxon would point to various cars we would pass on the road and say, "There's Grandfather's car!" It might not have been Grandfather, but it was most certainly the exact same model of car or truck! By the time Jaxon was 2, he was pointing out the cars of people he might have only met once. I'd hear, "There's Ms. Stephanie's car!" shouted from the backseat while driving down the road, and I'd have to think, "Who's Ms. Stephanie?"

So when our Cub Scout Pack leaders distributed kits for the boys to build their own Pinewood Derby cars, I knew Jaxon was going to be THRILLED about the project. Little brother Baylor was equally excited! Originally, both boys were going to work on their cars when they visited Grandfather and Grandma for the December camping trip. However, there just wasn't enough time due to all the other activities. The revised plan was for Grandfather to help the boys construct their cars while he watched the boys during my hospital stay for Grant's delivery. Unfortunately, Grandfather came down with a chest cold and his visit consisted of 5-minute driveway pitstop. Yeah, to say the very least, that wasn't the way anyone wanted or expected the visit to go.

Grandfather ended up building and decorating the derby cars on his own which I knew would lead to disappointment on race day. Knowing that this project would be something that Jaxon and Baylor would truly enjoy, I went to the store and purchased 2 new car kits so the boys could design and construct "play" cars.
We would use Grandfather's cars in the actual race, but the boys could play with their cars. This worked out perfectly because Grandfather's cars had to be considered "off limits" so the time and effort he put into weighting the bodies and aligning the wheels wasn't ruined by little hands hurling them across the floor and into the wall. Plus, once weighed and officially entered into the derby, the cars truly were off limits. Again, the play cars proved to be quite handy and helped us avoid a 3-year old meltdown when his car was taken.
The boys took the task of creating their cars VERY seriously. Thankfully, the kits I bought came with precut bodies that just needed to be sanded. It didn't require anywhere near the amount of effort as Grandfather's kits which came with a block of wood that had to be transformed into a car. I'd say Grandfather's years of experience running his own Pack's Pinewood Derby proved to be quite the asset for Jaxon and Baylor. Over the years, Grandfather picked up a trick or two for increasing the car's speed on the track. Once our competition learned of Grandfather's background, they started to refer to him as "The Ringer."
Here's a look at our team of racers. Grandfather themed his cars after Anh's practice which I was less than thrilled about, but only because I worried the boys would be disappointed by the brown and tan car bodies. Classy choices for business cards...perhaps, but not exactly thrilling race car colors, in my opinion. As you can see, Jaxon and Baylor went with more vibrant color options for their cars. Like I said, it worked out perfectly that we built separate cars to play with on race day. The only thing that mattered for the official cars entered into the race was SPEED, and Grandfather came through brilliantly in that department...at least for Jaxon.
Jaxon easily took first place in the Tiger division and advanced to the finals. Baylor wasn't as fortunate, but we wisely fibbed and told him he won his heat. Sometimes a little white lie is in everyone's best interest. Baylor was blissfully unaware of his loss and was able to instead focus on and celebrate his brother's win.
Jaxon ended up placing 6th in the finals, but his First Place win in the Tiger division resulted in a TROPHY!!! That trophy is now a prized possession by both Jaxon AND Baylor who promptly announced, "We share!" as Jaxon was presented with his trophy during the awards ceremony.
Well, Baylor, that's true. So, Grandfather will likely want to enjoy his allotted time with the trophy because if anyone deserves the acknowledgment, it's most definitely him. Thanks for guaranteeing us the win, Grandfather. You proved brown and tan can be cool, and in the process set the bar pretty high for next year!

Thursday, January 26, 2012

Ace of Cakes

Since Grant arrived earlier this month, we've been asked, "How do you all do it?" more than a few times regarding our activity-filled lives. Well, honestly, I'm not exactly sure. We just do. Somehow we find the time and energy because we're fortunate to have so many wonderful opportunities, and we don't want to miss out on the fun. Now, just because we embrace the chaos doesn't mean we always look forward to it.

I can't say I was thrilled to learn last December that January is the busiest month for our Pack. In fact, I'm pretty darn certain that my initial reaction was something like, "Oh sh*t!" and then I proceeded to have a type-A mental meltdown over how we could possibly do it all with a newborn in tow and me recovering from surgery. Then, the type-A answer occurred to me. We just would! One way or another, we would do it all. Of course, when the Pack leaders announced that the January camping trip was cancelled, I'll admit that I wasn't disappointed one bit. I think every parent probably did an inner "happy dance" while breaking the news to our little guys that we wouldn't be able to camp this month. Too bad. So sad. Thank God!

There was still plenty of "fun" on the calendar. Like for instance, destroying mom's kitchen...errr...I mean participating in our Pack's 3rd annual fundraising cake auction. How could we possibly pass up the chance for the boys to make a huge mess...I mean design and bake a cake all on their own that could then be auctioned off to the highest bidder? We couldn't!The only rule imposed on us was that the boys needed to do 85% of the work involved in baking and decorating the cake. The neat-freak side of me would just have to relax and accept that this was going to be "fun." Jaxon and Baylor decided on a theme, and I gathered the necessary supplies and formulated a design for the cake. The three of us wanted something grand that would attract bidders, but had to keep in mind that Jaxon and Baylor needed to actually complete this project almost completely on their own.
The baking of the cake was easily tackled. We used boxed cake mix to eliminate the need for exact ingredient measurements. Jaxon selected chocolate for the top and bottom layers of the cake and vanilla for the middle. The boys only needed my help with transferring the cake pans into and out of the hot oven. As we waited for the cakes to cool, Jax and Baylor dyed our white store-bought icing blue and cut out fondant stars that they would use to decorate. Truthfully, the only role I played in the decorating of the cake was smoothing out the pound of blue frosting that the boys slathered on. The rule was that the boys complete 85% of the work involved, but I'd say they easily provided 95% of the effort. With the cake completely constructed and iced, Jaxon and Baylor applied he fondant stars and topped their creation with a bobble head character. The end result...a fabulous Star Wars themed 3-tiered masterpiece!
The only negative to the entire experience wasn't actually the clean-up involved for mom, but rather Baylor's disappointment when we didn't leave the auction with our cake. He didn't agree with me on it being more fun to leave with someone else's beautiful creation. All Baylor wanted was to eat the cake that he helped bake. However, I was the one wielding the bidder's paddle and I felt our Star Wars cake deserved to go to the bidder willing to pay a whopping $70! Don't feel too bad for Baylor. We snatched up this race car themed cake for the bargain basement price of $17.50.
AND, we also took home the highly prized Phineas & Ferb cake with it's elaborate fondant characters. It was easily the most detailed and impressive cake donated for the auction, but I do question whether it met the 85% rule. Regardless, it was whimsical and attracted plenty of bids. Within seconds, bidding topped $100. Thankfully, an additional $30 sealed the deal. So, now do you understand why we had to surrender the Star Wars cake. We were already committed to almost $150 worth of cake. Plus, bidding on the Phineas & Ferb cake came down to us and the family that eventually ended up buying our cake. I couldn't be a jerk and outbid them twice!
Baylor pouted most of the way home, but then perked up as he bit the heads off our fondant characters. I also agreed that we would recreate our Star Wars masterpiece in the future, and that seemed to be what really made the difference. So while this may have been our first attempt at masterful cake baking, it certainly won't be our last.
Next time, I'll look forward to the task because while Jaxon and Baylor learned the steps involved in baking, I learned that we aren't making a cake. We're making a memory!

Friday, January 20, 2012

2 Weeks

Can you believe it's been 2 weeks since little Grant made his grand entrance into our lives? Well, we can't. It feels like he's been around much longer that's how easily he (or should I say "we?") has transitioned into the family. It's as if he's always been with us. Still...he's only a whopping 14 days old, but he is eating like a champ and growing like a weed.At his 2 week appointment with our pediatrician, Dr. M, Grant's stats were:

8lbs, 8oz
20 3/4 inches
50th percentile = He's PERFECTLY Average and we love him to pieces!!!

Monday, January 16, 2012

The World According to Baylor

I just had to share the Daily Report that Baylor's teacher sent home earlier this month. It was Baylor's first day back at school after bringing Grant home from the hospital, and I'm certain that Ms. J was anxious to hear all about Baylor's new role as a big brother. From the report below, it looks like Baylor naturally possesses one of the most important skills associated with being a big brother...the ability to embarrass your younger sibling!

Saturday, January 14, 2012

Straight to the Top

Nothing is going to slow down 7-year old Jaxon! As always, he makes the most of every single day and does it with a huge smile on his face. Charisma like that needs to be shared, and that's why we wanted to make sure Jaxon's 7th birthday was celebrated with the friends and family that love him. Assembling the gang for an afternoon of rock climbing seemed like a fun birthday party activity, and the fact that Jaxon and Baylor could show off their advanced climbing skills was merely an added bonus! Jaxon kicked off the festivities with a little demo for his buddies.
Jax made scaling the wall look easy! I watched as Baylor scurried up right behind him and thought to myself, "Oh, it must not be too challenging if a 3-year old can do it." Aunt Kelly assured me that my assumption couldn't have been more wrong. Combine the physical challenge with the endurance that the kids demonstrated by climbing for 2 straight hours, and you can easily see that they earned their birthday feast that followed!
Seeing Jaxon reach the summit in under 30 seconds left the entire group speechless, but only momentarily. Applause and cheers immediately followed!
After a little warm-up, Jaxon and several of the other boys moved on to the more advanced climbing walls. They showed no fear as they climbed to the top and rappelled back down. The testosterone was pumping!Thankfully, there was also a little girl power on display. Aunt Kelly and "Auntie" G-Mac weren't going to be showed up by some little boys. They gave it their all, but in the end, acknowledged and their much younger competition might have had a leg up on them. Oh well, practice makes perfect, and everyone unanimously agreed that the climbing gym was worthy of repeat visit.
With time running out, the boys raced to reach the summit one last time before we moved on to the less physically demanding activity of cutting the birthday cake and opening presents.

It was at that moment that Anh finally put down the camcorder and got in on the action. I knew he wouldn't be able to resist! It looks like I'll be the only rookie when we return to the gym. Hopefully, they won't make me look too amateur!
Anh carefully plotted his path and then made his way with ease to the top. I guess we know where the boys get it! Certainly not from their mom. Although, after watching everyone else tackle the challenge, I'm definitely looking forward to experiencing the climb myself in the future.
After all that activity, the group probably needed a massage, but seemed thrilled to simply refuel and rehydrate. Jaxon's Jaguars birthday cake was the perfect sugary finale to his fabulous party.
And, the boys seemed delighted to discover they were each leaving with party favor pails filled with rock climbing themed goodies.
By the end of the party, both the boys and their parents were thanking us for a fabulous time and "the best birthday party ever," but the only thing that mattered to me was the smile on my 7-year old's face. The beaming 3-year old was highly prized in my eyes as well.
Happy birthday, Son! Enjoy every moment of being a goofy & giggly 7-year old boy! It's a once in a lifetime experience!